Cross-Examination in Action: How Listening Changes the Next Question
- Michael J. DeBlis III, Esq.

- Dec 21, 2025
- 2 min read
Below are practical examples showing how each type of listening directly shapes the very next cross-examination question. These are moments where disciplined listening—not scripted questions—creates leverage.

1. Informational Listening → Precision Follow-Up
Witness: “I arrived at the scene around 10:00 p.m.”
What the lawyer hears (informational): - “Around” (approximation) - Potential uncertainty in timing
Next question shaped by listening: > “When you say around 10:00 p.m., could it have been closer to 10:15?”
Why it works: The lawyer exploits imprecision rather than assuming certainty. This small adjustment can later unravel timelines in closing.
2. Analytical Listening → Structural Breakdown
Witness: “Based on my experience, that behavior indicates intent.”
What the lawyer hears (analytical): - Conclusion offered without articulated foundation
Next question shaped by listening: > “What specific behavior are you relying on to reach that conclusion?”
Follow-up: > “And there’s nothing in your training that says that behavior always means intent, correct?”
Why it works: The lawyer exposes the gap between facts and opinion without argument or hostility.
3. Strategic Listening → Delayed Attack
Witness: “I never lost sight of the defendant.”
What the lawyer hears (strategic): - Absolute language (“never”) - High impeachment value later
Next decision shaped by listening: - No immediate challenge
Later cross-examination: > “You testified earlier that you never lost sight of him. That was your testimony, correct?” > > “But you also told the officer your view was blocked for several seconds, didn’t you?”
Why it works: Strategic listening recognizes when restraint creates a stronger contradiction.
4. Empathic Listening → Tone Adjustment
Witness: “I was terrified. I didn’t know what was going to happen.”
What the lawyer hears (empathic): - Fear, not exaggeration
Next question shaped by listening: > “And when people are scared, it can affect what they think they see, correct?”
Why it works: The lawyer reframes perception without attacking credibility, preserving jury goodwill.
5. Judicial Listening → Course Correction
Judge: “Counsel, let’s move along.”
What the lawyer hears (judicial): - Impatience with detail
Next question shaped by listening: > “You did not actually see who threw the first punch, correct?”
Why it works: The lawyer shortens the examination while landing the critical concession.
6. Jury-Centered Listening → Clarification
Witness: “The accelerant caused a flashover event.”
What the lawyer hears (jury-centered): - Technical jargon likely confusing jurors
Next question shaped by listening: > “In plain English, that means the fire spread suddenly and unpredictably, right?”
Why it works: The lawyer becomes the jury’s translator, building trust and clarity.
7. Self-Listening → Regaining Control
Lawyer (internally): Notices voice rising, pacing increasing
What the lawyer hears (self-listening): - Loss of control signals
Next adjustment: > Pause. > > “Let me slow this down. You answered ‘yes’ to that question, correct?”
Why it works: Control of tone restores authority and keeps the jury focused on substance, not emotion.
Conclusion: Listening Is a Tactical Advantage
These examples illustrate a core truth of trial practice: the best cross-examinations are built in real time. Scripted questions may start the process, but disciplined listening determines how it ends.
Trial lawyers who listen well do not merely respond—they shape testimony, guide perception, and create record. In the courtroom, listening is not passive. It is power.


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